Right said...Fred

I'm all for voicing your opinion, at least in theory. Sometimes things are better left unsaid. The rational that just because something is true, makes it less hurtful is not only harsh, but tactless. In an age of immediate gratification, the prevaling sentiment that saying what's on ones mind, as soon as it enters should be avoided. And of a similar vein why do we say the most hurtful to those who are nearest and dearest? Shouldn't extra care be taken with those who true relationships are found? While questions such as, "Does this make me look ..." are always a minefield. But I digress, recently I recieved a wedding invitation for a family member, and I should be happy to be included in the celebration, but I feel that they are rushing it a bit. I will also confess that I am a proponent of long engagements. I fully support the concept and significance of marriage, but I don't think that 18, or 21, is a reasonable age to marry. Especially if both partners haven't finished college. But having said that, I'll confess that I just bought items from the bridal registry.